So sex has been on my mind a lot lately, maybe because right now I’m not giving up my goods. Lol. But either way I wanna share my thoughts on sex.
It seems like a lot people don’t have sex for love 💔. Maybe it’s just the people I come into contact with and the media, but man people make me seem crazy because I want more from sex than just a good time…
I mean think about it, sex is the closest you can be to another person besides a woman and the child that she carries inside of her for 9 months; so why do so many take it so light? Why are so many so comfortable with sharing the most Intimate part of themselves with people they hardly know? It can’t just be about the physical pressure, I mean in the moment it absolutely seems that way but as I learn more about people I realize it is way more than that.
We all go through a lot mentally, every one of us, and regardless of the specifics we all handle things our own way internally. The struggle leaves a lot of us wanting a quick fix,” I just want to feel something.” Pain or Pleasure, Love or Hate;whatever makes us feel like we are actually living. Sometimes we want to feel physical pain to take our minds off the pain we feel inside, is sex a way to accomplish that? A quick fix, quick pleasure, feeling wanted, validation, confidence, shame,guilt, or just comfort.
Now don’t get me wrong, I know that sometimes you just have chemistry with a person and you share some amazing moments with them mentally, sexually, physically and alladat, which can be a beautiful thing. I also understand the “why take life so seriously, YOLO”, but be honest how does that shit feel afterwards when you are alone again?
What about the health aspect of it? The world we live in today is very dangerous as far as sexual diseases and sexual predators, do you take that into consideration or do you live like it can’t happen to you?
I swear we all have the best excuses to live the way we want to regardless of the circumstances or consequences. I do it, you do it, humans all do it; sex is just one thing I chose to explore. I am not passing judgment, just sharing my perspective and asking for yours .Ultimately it is your life to live and you have to be the one to live with your own decisions; walk down your own path.
Personally, I just want it all! I want the love, companionship, trust, foundation, fun, loyalty, freaky, compassion, climax, exhilarating , ecstasy,and pure connection that I know can come with 2 people that share that love for each other. I want them to know me, good and bad, I want them to be committed to me and put in the effort it takes to really become one with a person. I want them to feel how special they are for me to share my body, mind, and soul with them and visa versa.I want to explore different sexual experiences with that person. I want everything sex has to offer and I think a lot of people sell themselves short by spreading the love to so many. It has to get watered down…you know?
This discussion is not just referring to women, I know several men that lose themselves in sex with different women just the numb their heartbreak or feel like a “Man” society plays a big roll in that thought process.
So let’s talk about it…how do you feel about sex? Is it special or just fun? Do you feel good during and after sex with someone that doesn’t love you or even know you? Do you feel proud? Ashamed? Fulfilled? What do you get out of it? A ring? Love? Family? Validation?
Check out these links below for other people’s perspectives and research. Get a little more informed before you form an opinion if you are not already well read on the subject.
I look forward to hearing from you all 😙😚😆
R U Veracious???