We tend to want to help others so much that we hurt ourselves, and when it gets to that point we are actually hurting everyone involved. THINK about it. The feeling of having someone help you but you can tell they’re struggling to do so. I would rather struggle myself than cause someone else to struggle because of my problems, especially someone I truly care for. So listen to youself before ANYONE ELSE. Even if they are the ones telling you to help, you know you better.💚 Love you 1st, that’s the best way to help.